Choice's and Needs.

Starting to have sex is a personal choice. You decide whether or not you want to have sex, before it even happens. Your parents have said wait to have sex. Your church has said wait to have sex. Even some of your friends have said wait to have sex. Though those are great influences, It still is a personal choice. For girls (most of the time) sex is about emotion. Most of us start an intimate relationship to have that feeling of security, want and need. For boys its simple, they want to have sex for needed pleasure. Most of the time nothing more.(Or vise versa) So before you start an intimate relationship think about the other persons needs. Are you going to be able to fulfill the security, wants and needs for a women? Are you going to fulfill the needs of a man by pleasing him all the time. When you are in a sexual relationship you need to find a happy median that meets both your needs. So a question for you, why did you decide to have sex? Or why are you waiting to have sex?